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MEET THE BUMP: JENNA MC ARTHUR

30th May 2018
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I am so excited about this meet-the-bump! Jenna and I met when we were both interns at Elle magazine back in 2009! And now she is 34 week pregnant with her first babe. Of course, she also happens to be super stylish leading me to having serious maternity wear envy throughout her pregnancy. Jenna is now looking forward to being a mum as well as continuing to be a content creator for select brands.

How are you really feeling?

Excited, nervous, emotional – all the feelings really! I’m not really surprised as although pregnancy is a blessing and a miracle, growing a human being takes a lot out of you mentally and physically.

What was the thing that surprised you the most about being pregnant?

The preconceptions around pregnancy led me to believe this would be an easy ride – that I wouldn’t eat any sugar, that I would gym my way through the 40 weeks, that it would be all glow and tummy but what came as a surprise was that you just don’t know how you will handle pregnancy – each pregnancy is different and it is OK to say you know what – I love my baby and am so excited to meet him or her but the carrying part is actually not for me or I find this really hard. For me it is important to be open and share on this because during my pregnancy I have found so many other women who have battled with post-partum depression, difficulties through their pregnancy, finding it really challenging to breastfeed, hard truths that women feel they can’t share or talk about, that its supposed to be all roses. I think it is important for women to support each other and share / talk out about this so the ride is not so lonely.

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You recently closed your company, so describe the new normal day in your house?

It was a tough decision to close my first baby but the right one I know to be a first time Mum. I love working so to be honest a few projects have crept up which I am busy with as well as a few collaborations – I have begun sharing my pregancy and my journey on social media – sharing on products I love, baby tips I have picked up, dressing the bump and just really hoping to inspire and inform other women in some way be it big or small. A typical day for me starts with a stroll to Bootleggers for a coffee (I allow myself one a day) then I’m on mail doing a bit of work in the morning and then its full on organisation mode. We have recently moved into our new home in Greenpoint so between preparing for the baby and a new space I am always doing something. Full on nesting mode really. I’m not one to sit still so my days are full and this new phase is about sharing, connecting with people and taking time out to create be it on the home or work front. The weekends are all about family time. These last few weeks my husband and I have really tried to cherish this time together before there’s less of it with a newborn baby!

Take us into your babe’s nursery?

You’ll have to wait till the full nursery reveal on my blog for all the details! But what I will say is that I have tried to create a really still, elegant and peaceful space. Much to other Mums horror it is all white. We don’t know our babies gender yet but even if we did I would have kept the room in neutral hues. We had the compactum, crib and rocking / feeding chair custom made with Baby Belle – these pieces give the room a French / old world feel with a handcrafted crib which exhibits all the hallmarks of an antique crib with its classic curves and detailed carvings and deep button hole upholstery. These pieces add a sophisticated feel to the room while I balanced old world with a modern touch by adding a gold and mirrored side table, a beautiful icelandic sheepskin and a white linen toy box stacked with handcrafted knitted animals and toys. As much as I tried to keep the nursery all local there were a few pieces we picked up on our trip to NYC – a Trousselier sheep musical mobile, prints from the Animal Print shop. Oh and one of my fave finnishes in this room that brings in such warmth and feminity are the French lace curtains I found in Franschhoek at Masquerade.

How has being an expectant father changed David or given you a different insight into who he is?

You know what is interesting is how little others talk about the impact on Dads and what they go through on this journey. They may not have the constant reminder of carrying around a big bump but they too go through changes. There is a lot of pressure to provide as a father, how the new arrival will impact on their work, life, balance, how they will handle the birth itself. I would really recommend couples going to an ante-natal course as this provides a journey for both of you not just mums-to-be and it is a really lovely thing to do together. We are attending Thula Baby Centre classes and it gives us a weekly opportunity to ask questions, learn about pregnancy, birthing, breastfeeding and most importantly is just such a great support network to meet other mum and dads to be and connect with the right professionals from midwives to lactation specialists. The Dads connect and have a space to chat and bond over their thoughts and what if’s and its really important that the Dads are involved. David is beyond excited, he has been so involved and supportive from the beginning – he has definitely showed me a more gentle side but also a very strong side in that he takes his responsibility seriously and has prepared for his role by reading, reasearching and asking the right questions. For Dads to be – do get your hands on The Expectant Father, The ultimate guide for Dad’s-to-be and he also has enjoyed reading The Bump app.

What are your top picks that you pack to keep you comfortable yet super stylish during your pregancy?

Shoes, shoes, shoes – when you are expanding in every which way and are having a blah day and nothing fits, an amazing pair of shoes can change everything

Have fun with your choices and don’t feel you HAVE to resort to maternity wear. Definitely invest in a few beautiful dresses, a classic white shirt and a really great knit – just get bigger sizes and don’t feel you have to wear maternity clothing only.

Having said this, there are a few items that I had to get in maternity- a pair of maternity leggings (coming from someone who thinks leggings are a fashion sin, trust me, you’ll thank me later) a pair of dungarees and maternity jeans – H&M have great options that are comfortable but still stylish. I find in the last trimester a chunky knit or white longer length shirt goes perfectly with a pair of maternity leggins and leopard print loafers (my current wardrobe staples).

Before you think outerwear make sure you are being kind on your skin – I am obsessed with all the Mamma Mio products as well as Bio Oil – I alternate as I love how they make my skin feel and will continue to use both post pregnancy. I am also a huge fan of Africology anti-ageing SOS spray – in the last trimester I tend to wake up with a puffy / swollen face and the spray soothes, hydrates and moisturises the skin beautifully.

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We know you are always on the look out for amazing products, what have you bought already for your babe that you cannot wait to use?

I can not wait to use my Artipoppe leopard print baby carrier – it is made from cashmere, wool and cotton and carries baby from 6months – two years and I can not wait to wear it!

My Bugaboo – my husband is a bit of a nerd so we spent days test driving different prams, he researched different brands to within an inch of his life  – he took this very seriously and the result was the Bugaboo Chameleon 3. We got the navy one with cream quilted detail interior.

Mums swear by the Nurture One Nesting cushion – it is locally produced and an amazing sleep aid that is safe. It holds the baby securely and assists with snug position for sleeping which in turn encourages calm and relaxation. It also allows for a smooth transition from breast feeding to crib, pram or cot without changing position.

Anything Mustela.

My Woolina sleep sack which is a wearable blanket made from merino wool which regulates the babies body temperature keeping it cool in summer and warm in winter.

Im also excited to try out my Wubbanubs – part plush toy, part dummy the Wubbanub is designed to stay in place and comfort your baby. It’s attached to a sweet toy that’s easy for babies to grasp and close to impossible to lose. It will probably be my baba’s first little friend – I ordered the lamb, baby giraffe and ele from Amazon.

Ewan the Dream Sheep – I bought mine from Kids Living. It calms the baby and lulls them to sleep – it has actual womb and heartbeat recordings that are combined with either vacuum cleaner, rain or harp sounds. After 9 months in the womb your baba is accustomed to the mothers heartbeat so Ewan the dream sheep immitates these sounds and provides a calming and comforting affect on your little one.

Oh and last but not least – I am so excited to try out my sheepskin – it has such amazing benefits – the merino wool is super gentle against baby skin, has natural temperature control abilities, can result in better sleep, reduce stress and colic and, and and! Love that you can use it as a play mat or in the crib or pram – I got mine from Baaa Sheepskins.

If someone could have given you one piece of advice before falling pregnant what would that be?

Slow down, take a long deep breath and pause. Pregnancy is such an individual experience so it can be hard sometimes to get good advice and trust me, everyone has an opinion. Listen to your own body and do what feels right for you. On a practical front I would really suggest spreading things out nicely – don’t wait until the end to do the nursery, to buy all the essentials – do it as early on in your pregnancy as you feel comfortable doing it. For me the last few months have been exhausting so to have everything ready and organised has been so wonderful and less stressful.

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For more of Jenna make sure you follow her on Instagram and have a look at her blog, Jenna Mc Arthur.

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WE LOVE: MOMSY

28th November 2017
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When we were pregnant there were so few options in South Africa for great maternity wear (I basically wore my Yummy Mummy dresses everyday). So when I saw this new brand: Nursing Momsy I immediately messaged all my pregnant/breasfeeding friends and alerted them to this must have dress.

This is a specially “designed dress for nursing moms making nursing easy and more accessible, leaving moms feeling confident and stylish.” We love that it looks beautiful over a growing bump and then works perfect for breastfeeding. And of course the colour options have us insisting everyone gets more than one!

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Visit Momsy Facebook page or follow them on Instagram.

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MEET THE BUMP: JUDITH BELLE

18th May 2017
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Lovely photographer Judith Belle is due any day now. Here she shares a bit more about her pregnancy with us.

 

Are you finding out the gender of your baby and why or why not?

I’m having a little girl! So excited to be a girl-mom! The pregnancy was enough of a surprise, having certainty about the gender helped me to prepare for this journey.

Tell us one thing you can’t live without while pregnant.

Comfortable shoes!! I’m a wedding & lifestyle photographer and need to move and walk a lot for my work! I bought the most gorgeous BluBetty All Season leather lace up ankle boots and wear them almost every day!

What is your favourite beauty product while pregnant?

My mom gave me Happy Event, it’s a wonderful lotion to moisturise and soften the skin, filled with olive oil and vitamen E. I’ve been using it every day since I got it at 15 weeks. It also smells amazing! I’m not saying it’s the lotion, but I have no stretch marks yet.

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What is your favorite food or are you having any cravings while pregnant?

I’ve had very healthy cravings, thank goodness. For the first 20 weeks everything made me nauseous, except fruit. I could eat any and all fruit without feeling sick. Pineapple is still my favourite.

What preggy books or apps are you using?

I’m reading Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman, since I adore and admire everything French (fashion, style, interior, living, food, photography) it only makes sense to learn a bit of insight from the French and their parenting style. I was actually also an au pair in France 10 years ago, so a lot of what I’m reading only makes sense now that I am also preparing for a baby.

How would you describe your pregnancy style and where do you shop for preggy clothes?

My style have always been influenced by a bit of boho chic. I’ve been incredibly lucky with not gaining weight other than around my bump, so most of my things actually still fit me. I’ve only bought 3 pairs of comfortable leggings and one white preggy specific oversized shirt. All 4 items from the lovely preggy range by Mea Mama. I’m all about a capsule wardrobe and keeping things very simple and stylish.

What I’ve enjoyed most, is taking my weekly self portraits. The idea behind that was to find my favourite outfit of the week and document what I can still wear in that particular week of pregnancy. Looking back at my series of now 13 photos (I started it on 19 weeks) I am really glad I documented the growth, journey and my style like this. I’m sure my little girl will love it one day!

You can see them here and with this hashtag: #LumenBelleBump

What’s your exercise regime at the moment? And how has it changed  with your pregnancy?

I have a very physical job, squatting, moving, walking a lot when I photograph weddings and other lifestyle shoots. Additional to that I try to walk at least 4-5 times a week with a friend. (good to catch up on each others lives too) and I attend the Preggy Yoga Classes once a week at Conscious Birth in Illovo.

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Have you decided on a birth plan, are you going natural or having a caesar?

I’m hoping that all goes well that I can have a natural birth with no pain medication. I have a wonderful doula (Katrina Meek) that is helping me with breathing, exercises and positie birth affirmations. A doula is there to be the emotional and physical support from the very first contractions until you hold your baby. I believe the women’s body is strong, but the mind is stronger. So for me it’s also about getting myself in the right headspace to do this the way nature intended.

In preparation for your baby what are your most over whelming thoughts/ worries/concerns?

Time management. I love my lifestyle and my work. I’ve been taking things a lot slower this year and not traveling and shooting as much as I would have. My hope is that I find a balance to be the mom I envision for my girl and also still manage a level of career and job satisfaction.

What has surprised you the most about being pregnant?

How strong I am. Emotioinally & physically this has been my biggest challenge of my life, but I am determined and happy with my choice to go through with this journey. The most amazing thing is to see how your body change and adapt every week. I’ve been following my gut instincts with regards to food, exercise and big decisions and it is actually amazing how your body and your instincts guide you.

What is the best pregnancy advice you have received?

Be kind to yourself. Do things on your own time, in your own way, don’t be influenced by partners/friends/family/doctors. It’s of course to hear everyone’s insight and suggestions, but in the end you are in charge. It’s your body, it’s your choice, it’s your baby.

Follow Judith on her two Instagram accounts: Judith_belle and Themeasureoflight

{photos by Robyn Davie}

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MEET THE BUMP: AMY

18th April 2017
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Meet lovely, super-glam,  Amy, she is 33 weeks pregnant with her first babe. This growing little family live in an apartment in Illovo.

Are you finding out the gender of your babe? 

We haven’t found out the gender as we have always said we would leave it as a surprise. Our feeling is that so much in life is known, planned and controlled and it is the one thing you can leave to surprise. Having said that, every time we come back from a gynecologist visit, I secretly spend hours analyzing the scan photos and comparing them to gender scan images on google to see whether I can determine the gender. I still have absolutely no idea!

Tell us one thing you can’t live without while pregnant and why not?

My pregnancy pillow which was loaned to me by a friend from work. It is the most underrated pregnancy tool and helps me sleep a good eight hours every night. It is incredibly comfortable and takes the pressure off your back, pelvis and legs. My husband has taken a liking to it too and tries to steal it from me at night!

What is your favourite beauty product while pregnant and why do you love it so much?

I am obsessed with the Elemis Japanese Camellia oil, which was recommended to me by an Elemis beauty therapist. I was sold when she told me Victoria Beckham had used it for all her pregnancies. It’s incredibly light, not sticky at all and makes your skin feel beautifully supple and well-hydrated. I have been using it as an all-over body moisturizer in addition to focusing on areas where possible stretch marks may appear. I even use it on my face when I am in a rush to get to bed and don’t feel like doing my whole night-time beauty routine. Apparently you can even use it to massage your new baby. Suffice to say, I am on my third bottle!

What is your favourite food and have you had any cravings while pregnant?

In the first trimester, I craved  potatoes and would take a gourmet baked potatoes to work every day- I think everyone thought I was a bit mad. I have also kept a continuous supply of frozen grapes in the freezer (Woolies has a great deal on these!) and have a handful every night after supper when that sugar craving hits. I think they taste like sorbet and absolutely love this clever little treat.

What preggy books or apps are you using?

I haven’t been religious about following them but I use Nurture to follow my weeks and baby weight and What to Expect for informative articles. What to Expect has some great insight into the different pregnancy weeks, how your baby is developing and how you are feeling. It makes you feel a little less anxious to know that you are going through the same emotions as everyone else.

How would you describe your pregnancy style and where do you shop for preggy clothes?

I have a friend who was about 6 months ahead of me and she gave me a whole bunch of hand-me-down, tight but casual  long dresses from Pick n Pay. She looked gorgeous in her pregnancy wearing these and encouraged me to do the same and show my bump . I have lived in these over the weekends! Dressing for a corporate role has been more tricky. I bought a whole bunch of shin-length, high-waisted skirts from H&M and River Island which I wear with silk blouses and heels to look professional and feel comfortable.

What is your exercise regime at the moment? And how has it changed with your pregnancy?

I used to be a regular runner but stopped running at about 12 weeks. Since then I have done a few gentle walks and lately have been attending pre-natal yoga classes as well as incorporating some pre-natal yoga at home (I use the YogaGlo app). Exercise has probably been the most challenging transition of my pregnancy and in the beginning I found it extremely difficult not to be able to run, have a good sweat and get that post-exercise endorphin high. However, I am now loving the gentle yoga and long meditative walks.

Have you decided on a birth plan, are you going natural or having a Caesar?

I would really love a natural birth but am not hung up on it. If I have to have a caesar for whatever reason, I am okay with it.

In preparation for your baby what are your most over whelming thoughts/ worries/concerns?

Only that the baby will be healthy and well and that I will have a good birth experience.

Dream babymoon destination?

I would love to go back to our honeymoon destination which was Lamu in Kenya. But it is a bit far to travel to and we have opted instead to spend a few days at Oakland’s Country Manor in Kwa-Zulu Natal.

What has surprised you the most about being pregnant?

How well I have generally felt and how much energy I have had. I feel as though I have had a really great and easy pregnancy which I have really enjoyed- I think I have been incredibly lucky not to be sick. I will miss my bump when it is gone!

What is the best pregnancy advice you have received?

To really listen and connect with your body. When your body is tired, let it rest. When your body is out of breath, slow down. When you body needs energy, eat well. And when your body needs engagement, connect.

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MEET THE BUMP: NATASHA PALIN

5th April 2017
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This gorgeous mama, Natasha, and her husband Mat live in Cape Town with their two and a half year old daughter Pepper (you may remember we featured Pepper’s birthday party on the blog last year). This little family is expanding by one soon as Natasha is 33 weeks pregnant.

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As your second pregnancy, how is this time round different from your first?

Not much has been different the second time round. I’ve been fortunate enough to have had two very healthy and uncomplicated pregnancies. If I had to really nitpick, it would be that I have felt a lot more movement with this pregnancy. It feels like our babe never stops moving.

Are you finding out the gender of your baby and why or why not?

Of course we found out! We are thrilled to be having a little boy. I read the end of a book before I read the beginning, so naturally we found out the sex of our babe as soon as we could. 

Tell us one thing you can’t live without while pregnant and why not? 

Without a shadow of doubt, it has been a product called Elemis spa@home instant refreshing gel. It’s like a cold version of deep heat and it is pregnancy friendly. I used this product throughout my pregnancy with Pepper and I am using it again now. It is the most incredible product and instantly soothes sore aching feet and an achey ‘evening’ back, as I call it. 

What is your favourite beauty product while pregnant and why do you love it so much?

I use all of the Mama Mio products as I love how well the creams are absorbed and the gorgeous scents are totally addictive. I also go for regular QMS facials to keep pigmentation and preggie skin at bay.

What is your favorite food or are you having any cravings while pregnant?

I’ve developed a serious sweet tooth over the past couple of months. I live for Chuckles and Chocolate Nesquick and as with my first pregnancy, I have been craving Beer… of all things! 

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What preggy books or apps are you using? 

I’m ashamed to say, nothing! I honestly haven’t even thought about downloading a preggie app or even reading a book this second time round. Any spare time I have these days is spent researching ‘how to potty train’ and ‘why is my toddler moaning at night’ 😂

How would you describe your pregnancy style and where do you shop for preggy clothes?

I’ve been living in T-shirt style dresses and Kaftans from Country Road and a few bodycon style dresses from Cotton On. I am not a fan of anything maternity other than gorgeous soft maternity pj’s which I have purchased from both Anna-Louise and Lila-Rose. As I get bigger I will resort to Cotton On tights and Country Road tee’s. 

What’s your exercise regime at the moment?

I am all for taking things very easy when pregnant. You definitely won’t catch me doing anything extreme… I do weekly pilates, walks on the prom with my family and a swim at the gym every now and then. 

Have you decided on a birth plan, are you going natural or having a caesar? 

I had an emergency c-section with my first babe and although I would love to try for a v-bac the second time round, I think, knowing that I have such a big babe on board, another c-section would be best for me. I just hope it will be a planned procedure and not another emergency. 

 In preparation for your baby what are your most over whelming thoughts/ worries/concerns? 

Without a doubt my biggest worry is that I won’t have enough time and energy to do all the things I usually do with my toddler. I don’t ever want her to feel neglected by me and it is something that I am very aware of. 

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How did you tell your husband you were pregnant? And when did you break the news to friends and family? 

When I was just 3 weeks pregnant, I had a dream that I was pregnant, and I woke up that morning and raced straight to the bathroom to do a test. When it came out positive, I just literally walked into the bedroom and screamed- “we’re pregnant”. My husband had barely opened his eyes! Haha. 

We told our family and close friends as soon as we had confirmed the pregnancy with our doc and the rest of the world when I was about 9 weeks. I’m not one for holding in such life changing news.

Dream babymoon destination?

A 2 week break on the beautiful Island of Mauritius with my Husband and Baby girl was given to me as a gift for my 30th from some very special people and it literally was a dream. 

What has surprised you the most about being pregnant?

Without the risk of sounding vain… I am super surprised at how much I love my body when I am pregnant. Even though I have put on so much weight and I have what feels like thee biggest booty, I absolutely love it and I love being so curvy.  I also feel incredibly healthy and content with life, which I am so grateful for as I know pregnancy can be very hard for a lot of woman. 

Photographs by Fiona Clair Photography

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FAMILY ALBUM & THIS WEEK’S READING LIST

11th March 2017
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Chrissy Teigen and baby Luna via Instagram 

Happy weekend mamas. There is a strange autumn feel in the air this weekend and I am not sure I am ready for winter to be on its way. We hit the park this morning and convincing a toddler that she needs shoes and a jersey was like negotiating a high level contract – I couldn’t help but think “how am I going to do this all winter long?”

Here are Kimmy & Bear HQ we are busy busy – working hard on Design Joburg and a couple cool Spaces for some fun clients. I am also starting to prepare for Francie’s 2nd birthday – break my mama heart!

Here are some links that caught our eye this week, enjoy! 

Chrissy Teigen opens up about postnatal depression

Dad is not a babysitter, he is a parent

The BBC video that went viral this week – every parent can relate!

You are never going to sleep again

7 Strategies for Empathic Discipline

Did you love enough today?

Interesting read on the vaccination debate

The new preschool is crushing kids

A brave mama and how her daughter changed countless lives (you will weep!)

The dangers of using a sticker chart to teach good behaviour

How to Talk to Your Daughter About Her Body

Family Vacations Serve as ‘Happiness Anchors’ for Kids

Want to Raise Successful Kids? Do this

Ted Talks for when you’re expecting  a child 

Having a baby isn’t a miracle and doesn’t make you a goddess

Best countries for raising a family (*WOOHOO #15!)

Harvard Psychologists reveal: parents who raise good kids do these 5 things

32 ways to savour your children while you have have them 

My degree was not a waste

This is why Finland has the best schools

Walk slowly mama 

How French schools handle fussy eaters

Music and your baby’s brain 

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MEET THE BUMP: BAILEY SCHNEIDER

27th February 2017
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We all know radio and TV personality Bailey Schneider so we were super excited to hear that she is a fan of Kimmy & Bear and even more excited to share her meet the bump story with you – we can tell her little boy is surrounded by so much love and family.

Bailey lives with her husband, Socrates Georgiades (Sox) in Cape Town, she is 22 weeks pregnant.

Is this your first pregnancy?

It is! I’ve been keeping a Pregnancy Journal with my whole experience, the funny things that have happened, the milestones and so on, so that I can give it to Baby G one day.

Are you finding out the gender of your baby?

We couldn’t wait to find out the gender and at our 12 week scan on 22 December, Baby G didn’t want to show us. Kept crossing legs or turning away. On 6 Jan, I was in hospital for a night for severe dehydration from vomiting from a migraine and when we had a scan to check that baby was OK, we were able to find out that Baby G is a little boy! So exciting!

Tell us one thing you can’t live without while pregnant and why not?

I cannot live without my Granny Goose Cuddle-up Pregnancy Pillow and visits to my Chiropractor. I have a bad back ordinarily, but with the pregnancy, I’ve been feeling the aches and pains even more.

What is your favourite beauty product while pregnant and why do you love it so much?

The full Mama Mio range, like the Tummy Rub Oil, the Boob Tube and so on. There are certain oils/creams/products you cannot use when you’re pregnant and that’s why I love this range, because it’s especially made for pregnancy, so you know you’re safe. It’s also so luxurious and a chance for me to pamper myself at home.

What is your favorite food or are you having any cravings while pregnant?

In the beginning, I couldn’t get enough fish and olives. The minute I started taking Omega vitamins, the fish craving subsided, although every now and then I feel like it. I’ve had cravings for fresh oranges, glasses of milk, the cliched pickles, popcorn, carbs and sweet things- which has been hard for me since I follow a LCHF lifestyle. However, I haven’t not had – I’ve just tried to be control of the portions. I’ve also had a weird craving for McDonalds McChicken – something I haven’t had in 4 years. I find the cravings come and go.

What preggy books or apps are you using?

I am loving the What to Expect When You’re Expecting (WTEWYE) Book (latest edition) and Baby Sense/Pregnancy Sense. I’ve also got the apps: Pregnancy+ and the WTEWYE app. I’ve downloaded Baby Centre and The Bump apps too, but I go to the other 2 first for weekly updates on Baby G’s growth.

How would you describe your pregnancy style and where do you shop for preggy clothes?

I am loving the pregnancy experience because I don’t have to hold in my tummy anymore. haha! I’m finding I’m wearing tighter dresses, which I wouldn’t have worn ordinarily, but now I am proud to show off my bump. My husband actually spoiled me with a whole bunch of Maternity clothing from MeaMama – I was so impressed with his style and choice! I have also been wearing maxi dresses that are a size bigger from Poetry, Freddy Jeans have incredible maternity jeans, Cherry Melon has lovely leggings, LABEL Collection has a beautiful Maternity section, as does  Mama Meah. Cotton On has comfortable workout maternity wear. I sound like I’ve bought a lot of maternity wear, but I’ve bought a few staples and I’m mixing and matching with my ordinary clothes (well, the ones that still fit.)

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What’s your exercise regime at the moment? And how has it changed with your pregnancy?

I have always done Pilates at BUC Fitness , so I’ve continued with that and my instructor, Jess, has adapted the class to a Pregnancy Pilates class. I do Preggy Pilates twice a week and on the other days I try to get in a Promenade walk of 4-5kms. I’m grateful that I have been give the all clear to exercise, and while I’m definitely not overdoing it, I always feel so much better once I have exercised.

Have you decided on a birth plan, are you going natural or having a caesar?

I have had a complication with my pregnancy. I was actually meant to go for an operation to remove a rather large Fibroid, however, I found out I was pregnant just before the operation, so we cancelled it. As a result, the Fibroid has grown thanks to the hormones, it’s caused me quite a bit of pain and I’ve been advised that if I attempt Natural Birth, I may rupture my Uterus. The safest option for me is a C-section and being safe and keeping both of us healthy is the best birthing plan for me.

In preparation for your baby what are your most over whelming thoughts/ worries/concerns?

Gosh, I’m going to be 100% honest and vulnerable here. I never realized I liked to control things so much. I have definitely learned that pregnancy and motherhood is out of your control and I’ve had to let go of certain plans or ideas. I’m still learning to surrender, to be honest. I also had a laugh with my husband the other day. We are fully aware (and also not even close to truly knowing) how life as we know it is going to change. I’ve had feelings of being beyond excited to meet our little guy – especially because we have hoped, wished and prayed for a healthy baby, to little fears of: “There’s no turning back. I’m not ready!” Another thing that I’ve worried about, and I hope it’s normal, is trying to figure out how to be a Mom and continue with my career. For 16 years I’ve been the brand “Bailey Schneider” on Radio and TV and my career has been my baby. I am an all-or-nothing type of person, so I’ve been worried about juggling both. How can I be an “All” Mom and give “all” to my career too? Again, it’s about surrendering and knowing that everything is as it should be. My husband is always my voice of reason and the reality is, we won’t know anything until our little boy is here. One day at a time. I really hope it is a normal feeling, because I’ve felt guilty for even feeling this way.

How did you tell your husband you were pregnant? And when did you break the news to friends and family?

We had been trying for a baby, from the day we got married – we had also said we would try for a year, without pressure. I’m so grateful that it only took us 7 months. The operation to remove that Fibroid was coming up and it was the one month, I wasn’t expecting to become pregnant (see what happens when I surrendered – I’m learning.) I was 4 days late, which annoyed me because I didn’t want to be on my period, whilst in hospital. I had said to my husband that if, by the end of my radio show the following day I still hadn’t got my period, I’d buy a digital pregnancy test. That evening, we had dinner and I took the test, not really expecting a positive, because I knew I had the operation the following week. Well, it was a complete surprise (the irony – from all the previous months of hope and expectation) when the test showed: Pregnant 2-3, meaning I was 4 weeks pregnant. We both burst into happy tears, we kept hugging each other, then we sort of laughed hysterically at each other like mad people. It was such an amazing moment. I had blood tests the following morning, which confirmed that I was indeed pregnant. We cancelled the operation. It was serendipity too. My Mom and Dad live in Johannesburg and my sister and BIL live in London. I always imagined that I’d have to tell them via Skype. However, that Friday, I was scheduled to fly up to Johannesburg for a friends wedding that weekend. My sister and BIL happened to also be flying in from London for a visit, so I was actually able to tell them all in person. It was incredibly special and there was loads of excitement as it’s the first baby in our immediate family.

I told my best friend Karolina the next day when we met for coffee (erm, decaf) in JHB and a few others. BUT, because I had a few scares in the first trimester and the Fibroid caused me a lot of pain, we decided to wait for the full 12 weeks and assessment. The scan was on the 22 December, and once we were given the all clear, we made a Christmas Day announcement publicly! It was incredibly special.

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Dream babymoon destination?

Mauritius or somewhere local, like, the sleepy fishing town Paternoster.

What is the best pregnancy advice you have received?

Everyone keeps scaring us by telling us to sleep and enjoy watching series and movies now because you won’t be doing that for a very long time. I’ve been resting as much as possible and not feeling guilty when I have a day on the couch, even when the weather is beautiful outside. The other best advice I’ve received is to get off Google (scary place) and to choose a few close mom friends I trust and chat to them for advice. Everyone has their own opinions and ideas and it’s not that it isn’t right, it just might not be right for you. It can be very overwhelming and with the amount of knowledge available today, people tend to lean on that, instead of trusting our own maternal instincts.

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Follow Bailey on Instagram and make sure you have a look at her blog, Vanilla Blonde too.


				
								
	
BABE, BUMP, MAMA, READ

FAMILY ALBUM & THIS WEEK’S READING LIST

24th February 2017
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Happy weekend. Here is Joburg we are in for more rain – we’ve had cold rainy weather this whole week so we’ve been doing some serious crafts, painting, house making and even shows… rainy days are long when you are a mum. Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!

Here are some links that caught our eye this week: 

Natalie Portman Channels Demi Moore in 2017 Hollywood Issue Portfolio.

Japanese women looking to speed up the “mommy track.”

Beyonce: the Rock a Baby album!

First-born children have better thinking skills

Why skin-on-skin is so powerful.

How to raise financially savvy children.

This song was scientifically designed to make babies happy

When does a child need a sick day?

What the Obamas gifted celebrity babies from the White House.

Why young girls don’t think they are smart enough.

BABE, MAMA

MEET THE MAMA: JEN FROM BLUSH PAPER COMPANY

21st February 2017
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Jen is one half of the super team behind Blush Paper Company, she is also super mama to two year old twins Harper and Cara.  

How has your style changed since becoming a mom?

I’ve simplified my style drastically! My go to in the morning is ; jeans, a t shirt and my trusty superegas  – I love a good shoe! Ive recently embarked of a more simplified, functional, quality driven wardrobe. Less is most definitely more in my mind and that way i can focus on other things.  

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Best gift you have received for your girls?

Their wooden push cart with blocks which they play with all the time. They especially love to push their beloved Bunny & Hippo around in it all day long along with a few other treats they pick up along the way. It has been a saving grace in our family and watching their little faces chasing each other up and down is too adorable for words.

Favourite book to read to your girls?

They have a library of books but one that stands out is this book that was actually my younger brothers when he was a toddler called the Oxford Childrens Picture Dictionary. And its so great ,each picture is different and you can basically make the story up as you go along but they’ve got to guess what each object/ colour/ activity is happening in the picture. Its so colourful and vibrant  – my girls love paging through and showing me what they can see.  

Where is your favourite place to go hang with your children? 

This would have to be Nanna and Papa’s garden. They love it here and know it so so well. They even have their regular hiding places and go to spots and of course where the cookie jar is kept!

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Favourite meal to give your girls?

The girls love a Spaghetti Bolognese and I have a small heart attack when I see the state of the kitchen post meal time. But as long as they eating its all part of the process.

What is the biggest surprise to you about having twins?

How much joy they bring to my life every single day. Not a day goes by that i don’t feel truly blessed and fulfilled. Watching these two girls grow up with such strong district personalities along side each other has been such a wonderful experience.  

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What do you love most about your husband being a dad?

Seeing my girls faces light up when they see their daddy in the morning when they wake up or when he plays with them in the evening and they both collapse in a fit of laughter. He truly is one the best dads in the world. They are pretty darn lucky …. as am I.

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You have a successful business. Any advice on balancing motherhood and work?

Well we have just started so its early days yet but thank you. Im truly grateful for all that we have achieved thus far. I would say my biggest advice would be when you are a working mama balance is key. The question of whether one can have it all is so personal to that specific individual. in my mind each day comes with its own challenges and you have to remain focused on what you want to do but also realistic that the important stuff like family will have to come first no matter what. Its a balancing act for sure each and every single day.  

What one thing do you want to teach your children?

To be kind to all human beings no matter their race, class or beliefs. We are all equal and deserve the same respect. Life is a gift and we should cherish it no matter what.

Best piece of advice you could give moms of twins.

Surround yourself with a good support system. Don’t be afraid to ask for help even when you think you can manage a task alone. And most importantly give yourself some me time and have that glass of champaign even if its a Tuesday evening. You deserve it girl friend!

Images by Campbell Photography.

BABE, DIARY

FRANCIE SUGAR (YEAR 2) – 52 PORTARITS ROUND UP – DECEMBER

24th January 2017
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Week 36: Summer is the best isn’t it? You love it when you can take your clothes off and wonder around in the nude, at Kimmy & Bear’s house on a Sunday or after dinner at home. We seem to have gotten into a little after dinner routine with Honor and Jack, they come over and play until we walk home with them again before bath. You love it – you run to greet Honor and follow her around the house showing her things. You try to share with Jack too even though it is hard for you.

We gave you your Christmas present early this year. Your little wooden kitchen on one rainy Saturday afternoon. It really is your favourite thing and we all spend ages cooking in your kitchen. Your favourite story is The Ginger Bread Man and I think one of the reasons why you love your kitchen so much is that your wooden ginger bread biscuit was put in the kitchen’s oven as soon as you saw it and it has not come out since. Each time you ask you say “no ready”.

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Week 37: This past weekend we spent at Leopard Creek in the Lowveld, it was just your mama, papa and ouma and you. Your favourite thing was swimming so we would spend most days in the big pool, cooling down and singing all the songs that you know from your swimming lessons with Judy. Then you discovered the water slide with you papa which you loved! You would go on it “again” and “again”. You would get so excited as you climbed the stairs with your papa and then wave “hi” to us while I waited at the end for you.

You also learnt all about mosquito repellent – reminding me to rub you each time we left our room, even lifting your hands as if asked to do so. But the most amusing part of the holiday was that the shower had “no door” which you told anyone that would listen. At first you didn’t even think I should shower with no door but once you got used to it, you knew that your explaination of “no door” was amusing us so you would say it over and over.

You also loved the golf carts and watching the fan go “round and round” but were not a fan of all the animals that we spotted from the house and would say “bye ellie” and go inside whenever you saw them (or hippos, monkeys, buck or anything else you spied).

One night you woke in the middle of the night and asked for milkies, when I said no you asked “just a bit please mama” which of course broke my heart.

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Week 38: Some time at home before we headed off on holiday. You loved having your papa around for more than just mornings and you thrived playing with your cousins. We celebrated your papa’s and Honor’s birthday all day on Sunday 18th December. First we spent the morning at Honor’s house, opening presents and having breakfast and then the afternoon at home for tea, dinner and bath time. We hardly saw you, following your cousins around but every now and then (like you do whenever we are at parties or around lots of people) you took a timeout. Coming to sit down with me, with your binkie and your thumpie and having a little break. This moment was caught taking a time out with Granny – your great granny aka Sugar, who you are named after. The days drift away, often not captured so although she is around us all the time I don’t have many pictures of you together – of course one does not snap Saturday morning breakfast or grocery shopping but here you are together and this is one of my favourite pictures.

You are playing more and more games with us, hiding and saying “where me” or asking “where ma thumpie?” after bath. I now wrap you with one hand out of the towel so that it is easy access to sucking. Of course your binkie and your thumpie continual to be your favourite things, resting quietly on my shoulder with you are tired or need comforting.

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Week 39: Hello holiday! We made the trip to Southbroom this year – Granny, Kimmy, Bear, Bailey, JanJan, Hugolyne and Guy and all you cousins. We all stayed in one big house and spent the week having long meals, beach visits and afternoon swims. Before bath we would go for long walks on the golf course and bath tubs filled with little bods. You thrived of course – the sea air took over your curls and made you eat well and sleep well. You love having such easy access to your cousins – finding your own way to their bedrooms and jumping in bed with them or playing with their toys and reading their books to your hearts desire.

You loved the plane ride, explain to us on a daily basis that you went “op op op” in the plane with the suitcases while your papa drove mama’s car. You didn’t love the beach. Surprising I know but you would rather we didn’t go, staying hooked on my hip and asking to leave from the moment you saw it. You would put up with it slightly if we were under the umbrella and you were distracted with sandcastles – again the ones that your cousins built were best. But we didn’t dare take you near the sea.

Each morning I would sneak you into Kimmy and Bear’s room and you would spend the early mornings with them, chatting to Bear in bed and Kimmy gave you breakfast. Of course your possession of “ma mimi” was strongly felt and you would leap up to her hip each time you sensed someone else may be aiming for the same spot.

Christmas morning was beyond exciting for you – you knew something was up and though father Christmas gifts were amazing that they kept coming out of your stocking – each one you pulled out was met with an excited enthusiastic “wow”. Then more presents under the tree pretty much blew your mind – even if they weren’t for you, you loved to hand them out and help everyone with the opening.

Our Christmas Day had a sad taint to it – your papa’s papa passed away and you knew something was up. One day we will tell you all about him.

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